Valerie's wedding 29 June 2013.

On this very special day on 29 June 2013, one of intimates was officially off the racks.
And i miraculously caught the bouquet. I will nv forget this special day. My lover gave me a bouquet.


It’s like the major event of the year for intimates. I swear. We were excited. Valerie's wedding marks the my first friend wedding that I attended. It used to be sharing the reunion of relatives who you hardly meet. HAHAHA.



From colour themes. To outfit. To accessories. We share her worries, difficulties and everything she faced while planning for her wedding. Its not easy.

Getting married is a big thing. Monetary issues are involved (A good budget is about $50k, including banquet), different ideas and the never ending plans for your big day just to ensure everything will flow smoothly. I can sense the stress.

It is your life’s biggest event. Probably due to the money involved too.

Everyone is contributing their so called ideas. You have to meet everyone’s expectations. You are able to differentiate your “Real” friends. You finally see friends who will willingly share their joy and happiness for you. They are those who make an effort to change their schedule just to celebrate your big day with you. Not easy.

With just a wedding, you are able to see a lot of things.

Food for thought: Sometimes I wonder why people join their souls tgt.

Is it because it is the next step in life? I am 26 yrs old. Its time. Get HDB liao, need to get married alr. Need the ROM certificate to get house keys.

Is it because its stress from family? Look!! Your cousin is married. When is your turn!!!!

Is it due to peer pressure? Shit, my friends are all married. What am I doing.

Is it because it is due to a shot gun marriage? OMG. My tummy is getting bigger. I need to get married.

Is it because you are getting too old? Oh no, I am 35 yrs old. Everyone is looking. I am still single.

HAHA. #justsaying #partialtruths

But most of the relationships I see now are genuine. They are happy. No partial truths or facing any of the above yet. I hope none of you ever do.



Marriage is the reunions of 2 parties with no hidden motives. It is the act of pure love, the need and necessity to spend the rest of your life with your partner. To begin a new life. To engage in a totally new relationship of husband and wife. From that day, you are no longer alone. You have someone from another universe, not related in blood, caring and loving for you.



I wonder when papa hand me over to XX, he will emo and cry a not. I am his precious little girl. Mama always say, "your papa dotes on you so much since young, it's almost ridiculous." HAHAH.


It’s the day your papa walk down the aisle with you, handing you to someone he trust will love you as much as he do. Awww. Its like, the man of your life for more than 20 yrs suddenly changed. Your papa handed you over to lead a brand new life.


To start a new beginning. I enjoy gg for weddings. To emerge in the atmosphere of pure joy, love and happiness. To witness their effort and planning for their big day. To see 2 couples happily tgt. What’s there not to love?

Valerie’s wedding is a success. She has set such high standards, its very stressful for the remaining intimates. HAHA.

I like how she put in effort to make it a personalized wedding, while trying to keep prices low yet keeping her ideas in mind. Its an art. Not easy.

I am ecstatic to see Valerie’s wedding which went through smoothly, happily married and enjoying her special status now. Its indescribable. It warms my heart to see people and friends I love leading a blissful life.



I am such a simple person. HAHA. You happy. I happy. What a simplified theory.

The rings that seal 2 individuals tgt. How sweet. It may just be an alloy of metals mixed tgt. But behind this chemistry lies significance meaning for both of them.

You belong to me today.


Then again, everyone is happy for Valerie. Truth friends are happy for one another. Pictures say a thousand words.



We had so much fun playing that morning. Making funny faces. Spamming the camera. Waiting anxiously.





This is what my buddy is good at. My buddy can make very nice plaits. Woots.

Thats me fooling around and taking everyone is action. Apparently only sister is camera sensitive. LOL. Rofl.


And its done in 10 mins.


Thanks to my very amazingly thick black hair, I can have pretty and chio fishtail plaits.

Its just a fun going with friends you love. To chat and gossip on nonsense.


Intimates FTW.


Only my sister entertains me. HAHAHA. I just take the camera and force everyone in. HAHA.


And MH is my braces buddy. I know we are still very chio. Thank you.


My task of the day: To ensure I don't get boomz enough to fall into the water. HAHAHA. Its a pool-side ROM. Else, the subject is gg to be meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee instead. Wrong focus.  Oh shit.


And the best thing of the day is to catch the bouquet!!! Veron is amazing! #proudofmyself

I did the bouquet proud. I didnt let it drop to the floor. There wasn't an epic moment of oops silence. The bouquet is not destroyed. Hooray!


I have to make sure I am the next one in line to get married after sis. HAHAHA. lol. XX, are you supposed to be stress or I am supposed to be stressed instead?

Sorry XX, thats a hint I need to get married soon. HAHAHA.


My bouquet is pretty.




Her theme: Green and blue.




Head home and rest before the wild night begins.  I attempted to make my angbao the most unique in the entire box. And, obviously. I did it. HAHA.

I sealed my ang bao with wax, embossed with love. I nv got so enthusiastic giving angbao before. Only for friends I love with all my heart.


And we will nv forget our OOTD. HAHA.

Well, we planned our outfits since a thousand yrs ago. Trying to adhere to her wedding theme colours.

Here's mine. Valerie gave me this dress to wear for her big day. I had strict instructions from the Bride to wear this dress for her banquet. HAHAHA.

Sexy peekaboo. Chio bu chio?!


I really enjoy us fooling around. One entire table of absolute fun. The fun factor just diminish by 50% when your table has some "foreigner" that you are not very close with. HAHA.











Its funny how we race against time to take pictures before the sun goes down. LOL. #thingsgirlsdo.


Tell me why is Valerie so chio?

I love our family picture. No outsiders, just intimates and their partners. heh.


Intimates have special seats. HAHAHA. We at the side of the aisle. So we have a clear view of the march in. HAHA. wee.



Say hello to my buddy. Everyone is jealous of our hair. HAHAH.

Things crazy ppl are capable of. HAHAHAHA.

29 June 2013 is such a happy day!!! No doubt, I think we easily made it to be the nosiest table. Then again, its only because there are no outsiders. HAHA.

Cant imagine the awkward situation of having someone we don know sharing a table w us. You feel the stress and pressure even to finish food. To take another slice of meat a not, but i am not sure if others want. Can i take another bowl? oh no. i am in a dilemma. ltr ppl thought i take their portion.
#truestory

I am not sure if anyone realised, my Valerie is having after-marriage-glow. It just shows on her face, everyone is jealous. HAHA.

I am so happy one of intimates is married. Year by year, lets hope we are on track to attend each another wedding ceremony.

Sis, you are next! (:
CANNOT WAIT.

Wootz. Its gg to be another night of absolute fun again. Intimates yearly event. LOL. HAHA.

Friends i love. Each one of us is different; Each have different problems, different characters, all working in different fields. Its been an amazing journey thus far.

My way of survival: Be true and honest; They reciprocate.
I am glad i have you all. heh. Thanks for reciprocating.
Thank you.

Life is colourful with intimates presence. Sense my joy and happiness as I am typing this post now.
Everyone deserves to be happy, to have a partner who we all love dearly and be surrounded by lovely ppl.
Happy to see you happily married, Valerie. Seeing you happy = Intimates' joy.

Its a girl thing.

I have been wanting to pen this down for a long time. Received the photos close to 1.5 mths alr and here i am, trying to pen down thoughts. An impromptu photoshoot for intimates! I always wanted to do photoshoot with them to have photos for safe keeping, to smile when i look at them half a centuries ltr. HAHA. And polaroids to capture moments instantly.

Our collections of polaroids!


Its a scorching hot Saturday morning, perspiration may damp our dresses and outfit, but our spirits were all kept high. SO EXCITING. Its a cobalt blue theme. (: Sunny day speaks of our sunshine character. HAHA. Everyone so boomz!!! ^^
 

Perhaps a good photographer can take awesome and jaw dropping photos. But the subjects in the photos play a even major role to speak the story. We are just a grp of happy girls who enjoy each other's company. I know you are jealous of us. HAHAHA. Cause we are look so comfortable and happy with one another. We dont need a fantastic photographer trying very hard to bring that out, it just show in the photos.
 


I dont know where to begin telling or understanding the amt of luck i have actually. Nope, I am not sick of saying them yet. Grateful and proud to have intimates as best friends. We did alot of crazy things tgt, to have similar goals and passion and yet everyone is unique in their own way.
 

Sometimes, its a miracle for our formation. Only sis and val used to come from the same school. The remaining 6 of us are not connected in any way. Not same school, age or major. Just a common interest of crazy online shopping. HAHA. The beauty of being shopaholics.



I have the best friends in grp and i need them to know. HAHA. Many say I am too positive, optimistic and contented. But, life is made beautiful because we live.laugh.love. Being surrounded with true friends and happy and healthy family is really all i ask for. (:



Thanks for accepting my weird and often ridiculous thinking i have. Not to judge me but just accepting my very boomz and crazy behavior. Thank you for always being there in my Intimates whatapps chat grp to hear my happiness and rants and disappointment and everything random. In times of critical need, my whatapp chat grp is always there with open arms.



Everyone share and taught me a lot of things. Friends listen and offer help and advice. Sometimes its the listening ear that make life sweeter.

Life is still sweet. As always.

Val looks so genuinely happy, i am smiling to myself now. What happy vibe she is portraying here!


Or should i just say everyone is happy?


My buddy is doing an advertisement. HAHA.


Everyone have friends right? I mean, in some point in your life, be it in school or activities, we made new friends. The question is, are those real friends? Friends make or break a relationship. Suppose we are able to find real friends, it makes your life really beautiful. And today, I really think friends are extremely important and plays a major role in our lives.

Say hello to the one and only intimates necklace in the world. (:


Truth to be told, i don have a great number of friends. But then again, life is not measured by the quantity of friends, but quality friends. No, those are not words coming from a loser. Its just that, I have a big grp of hi-bye friends and I can easily forget them the next minute cause they made no deep impression in my life. HAHA. And they are definitely not those i count on in times of desperate need.

And we all love one another. We do have differences, but at the end of the day, we mean well.



Ppl always say, our lifelong partner is our best friend. Perhaps its just 80% true. However, some of things just cant be revealed to your partner but friends. Its not abt relationship breakdown. Some things are just, hard to say. Its about our darkest secrets only to be revealed to ppl you trust most without being afraid of them being leaked out to public ears.




Sometimes, it is friends that help you through difficult times. Perhaps its the same thinking, small age gap, same gender that makes us able to say your troubles out loud for everyone to analysize the situation tgt. We share shopping tips, awesome loots, another must-try food, recommended skincare, you name it, we do it. We talk to each other so much, they are like my second family. Sometimes i doubt i talk that much to my XX or family. LOL.

True friend dont always say honey-sweet words just to please and win your favours. Its abt saying/hearing bitter truths that we know will help you in the long run. Nothing, but truth. Those are called best friends.


One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood - Lucius Annaeus Seneca

Best friends are the best thing one can have, and the best thing one can be for each other.
Cherish this.

Keep calm and have peace. True and real friends calms you down. (:



Nothing is too difficult. Namaste.


A friend is one who knows you and loves you just the same - Elbert Hubbard

Thanks for being there! (:
I love you all.

Loves,
Boomz veron.