4th Anniversary

XX and I just spent our last 4th anniversary on 4 June 2013.
 

We survived the date with just a simple dinner out in town, no flowers, sugar honey or gifts. I will probably only receive one and only bouquet of flowers on my proposal day. LOL. HAHA. Not that I am not a fan of them, I would rather to spend the money on food/clothes. HAHAHAHA. I am still adamant in making my own pearl/crystal bouquet for my wedding. Heh.

OMGOMGOMG at my shiok maki. That is the best maki you can find in Singapore. I am not kidding or joking. You wont find such impressive-mind-blowing-maki for just $16 elsewhere.




I am contented with my simple dinner date on my anniversary date! (:

Koh Grill and Sushi Bar
Address: Wisma Atria, Singapore 238877

Out of random, I did a scrapbooking just before our 4th anniversary.


It seems to me there is nth my XX really needs now. So my wallet is saved and I didn’t get anything. The present shall be put on hold, until I figured what is essential. HAHAHAHA. As for him, there are too many things I want cause I am so greedy. He shall get me my first chanel earrings as a gift instead. I am such a spendthrift. Oops. Not a #goodwifepotential.

How time flies. It really did seem not too long ago we just got together. No, this is not because XX has been as sweet as honey. If anything, both of us exist in a relationship where there are no sugar coated message sent every day. LOL. We are just a boring, simple couple. No, there are no excitement or fireworks. We are in a bo chap, elderly stage. (Sometimes I find it a blessing – work is too stressful and tiring. A simple relationship is good. Sometimes I find it a joke - We are too young to fast forward that fast. 4 yrs and we are like bored, as if 40 yrs into the relationship alr.


XX rarely say sth or anything, diabetically sweet. Rare. Not that I am not fond of them, XX is just not expressive through words. He is someone who expresses his concerns and love via actions. Since I don’t do that myself, it is not fair to ask my partner to do the opposite. My XX nv called me honey/baby/sweetie – I will probably get goose bumps. LOL. “XX” is our way of expressing love. HAHAHA.


My mama always, always tell me to count my blessings to able to meet him.

1. He is thrifty. I am a crazy-spend-thrift-shopaholic. Le sigh. I know, i am trying my best to cut my spendings alr.

2. Truth is, graduation is possible only with his help. I am not hiding it. I probably have difficulty graduating or diagnosed with depression during my 3 year course.


BUTBUTBUTBUT. I am not that bad right? I can cook, I can do scrapbooking, I can do housework, I can do alot of things including eating and sleeping. HAHA. Nvm, #goodwifepotential on the go! I actually think I am very rare species to date leh. LOL.

4 yrs = 1460 days. Truth is, I considered that an achievement. It is not easy for 2 parties who know absolutely nothing about relationship and start to get used to a life where everything comes in a pair.


XX had 22 yrs of singlehood. After 20 yrs of XX eng’s singlehood, I have to get used to reporting my life to my partner where I hope he is to be my life partner. Not easy. We have come a long way. Everything is new to us. It seems to be me that everything is a challenge.


None of us have previous relationships to make a comparison - No, I actually think that is a good thing. Making comparison makes your life miserable cause its human nature to make a difference between the former and latter. We cant ensure if the former or latter will turn out to be a total nightmare. There are no guarantees in life. What if? Life is too short to have so many what ifs.


As a woman, life's biggest decision lies with finding your Mr right, have you found yours yet? I choose to think there is no turning back if you choose wrong. Youth wasted. Time wasted. Feeling wasted. We should all learn to accept what is suitable for us. To choose correctly. Afterall, lifetime is more than just 4 years.

Certainly, XX is not the best man on earth as a life partner. But he is good enough to be XX's eng exclusive man though. HAHAHA. Thanks for sharing all your first with me. I cherish all the first we do tgt. Our first kiss, hug, date, overseas, etc etc. The first of many to come.

Thanks for accepting who I am. I wont forgive you or myself to be someone I am not. (:
Thanks for being crazy with me. Heh.

weekend getaway for our 3rd anniversary.

so, here is the batam entry! Oh god, its another photo spamming entry.

OMG! this is 1 mth ago.XD i am so slow in blogging. tsk.


HAHAHA.

anyway. there is really nth much to do at batam, except to spend money and nua.
its so nua, it a very good break from all the stress u are experiencing at work.
i actually miss batam for all the nua-ing i experienced. HAHAHA.

i love staying in hotels.


munching on chips while watching HBO and movies, switching channels till you find sth u like, the clean white bed sheets, super thick comforter, blasting air con, comfy pillows and mattress, slp till your body tells you to wake up, wash up and go for buffet breakfast.

p/s: when gg batam, ppl usually stay at holiday inn or harris. holiday inn is the more expensive hotel between the two.



but these 2 hotels are the furthest from the town/shopping area, as its the closet hotel to the jetty.
(holiday inn is at waterfront city, the town/shopping area is at nagoya. now you know how far they are from each other. its at least a 30 mins ride)

as such, i suggest you join tours in batam. i don think hotels provide the service of bringing you to the town area. LOL.

else you can always choose to stay at 2/3 stars hotels at the town area. (:
(but, there are hardly anything to shop at the shopping malls!)
 
i love the fact that 2 versions of pillows are given. perks of a 4 star hotel.
i took the soft pillow, XX took the hard pillow. LOL.

life is nua and awesome.
love staycation as such.

in an attempt to try sth new to celebrate our 3rd anniversary,  we head over to batam.

so, at 830am, my XX asked, "passport pls."

to my horror, i said, "oh no, i leave it at home."

either i said it too calmly, or i joked too often, XX thought i was just pulling his leg.
until he realise, i wasnt playing.

well, he used to remind me whenever we go overseas. cause i always rmb to bring.
but not this time. and i didnt bring. LOL.
HAHAHAHA.

OMG. i just attempted to go overseas, without a passport. i conveniently left it at home.
good job done veron. LOL. full of surprises; i am no 1.

the time is 830am. i need my passport at 930am to board.
GG-ed.

i am gg to miss my ferry boat ride and there goes my $127 per pax. LOL.
called mama immediately for help.

and got a scolding from her instead. for not bringing the most impt thing.
HAHAHA. mama managed to rush my passport to habourfront in the end. hurhurhur.

mama said, " you are so hopeless, i am amazed and amused."
oh wells.

i am so confident mama will be able to deliver my passport to me on time, i actually still have the mood to take photos. HAHAHA.

sometimes, i am truly amazed by myself.


guess what, we are in couple tee that day!
XX commented that, "we only wear couple tee, once a yr; when we go overseas." LOL.


and its such an expensive couple wear. i think its $48 per set. LOL. 




hooray! mama delivered my passport and i board the ferry!! or should i say, boat. LOL. we are still early lor. in fact, we waited for 30 mins. HAHA.


not too bad, i live up to my name of being a pig. i still managed to slp in the boat for an hour despite the bumpy journey. LOL. i am really slp anywhere. tsk.

and here we are! the iconic of Indonesia architecture; pointed ends.



since its on a weekend, our tour grp is kind of big. HAHAH. thank god its a bus, and not a van. LOL.


first stop, to buy keropok! 


a sinful place, disastrous to my pimples. so XX keep reminding me, cannot buy so much, ltr pop pimples again. T.T

i bought very nice honey combs here!
and got cheated. cause its more expensive than outside. the tour guide earn commission by charging a higher price. nvm, since its nice.

if you guys have a chance to visit the shopping malls, don buy anything (like kueh lepis/cakes) when the tour guide ask you. shopping malls sell way cheaper. don worry, its equally nice de.

headed for lunch! all the 933, 955, 555, all same boss ok. doesnt matter which branch you go. LOL.


food served is pretty normal. edible, okay only. since meals are included, i shall not commented much. LOL.

but, i don think its nice at all, if i come all the way here and pay for it. LOL. HAHAHA.
the best part is, there are so many dinners that afternoon, the waiters and waitresses mixed up orders, we got double servings instead. say yeah. ^^

double fish, double prawns, double vegetables.




its my first time trying this Japanese clams. nv like to eat these, cause mama doesnt allow me to eat them. she very scared we all get hep A from eating all these uncooked/dirty/mis-handled shell seafood. LOL.

i swear i summoned a lot of courage putting this in my mouth. the tail is slightly black and pointed. and meat is brownish in colour. i almost, almost find it hard to swallow it down. LOL.


mega sized coconut!!!


visited this place right after lunch, where it featured all the mini houses in Indonesia.

















 




he learn all the craziness from me. LOL.


and he learn how to cam whore too. LOL.


head off and visit a temple.




saw coconuts and bought one! $1.30 nia, HEH.



 i love coconut drink ever since i went BKK chachutak.


bought this very nice kueh too!!


while the rest of the group headed off for massage, XX and i went for light shopping at the supermarket.
and we came out with chips/drinks/instant noodles for the night.

spot my jumbu!!! i must buy jumbu, everywhere i go. LOL.
i go bkk also buy jumbu. HAHAHA. LOL.

all the food we bought in a day!

yes, the overpriced honey combs/keropok were from yong heng. and a can of jia jia liang teh from all my sinful keropok intake. XD


dinner for the night. the best food to eat in a cold room while eating dinner.
well, holiday inn hotel is situated in a v v ulu place where there is hardly any restaurants.

and food at the hotel is very expensive, so i suggest you all to buy food into the hotel so that you wont go hungry.

i swear, the ABC mi goreng is damn niceeeeeeeeeeeeee.


we were being upgraded to a 2 room suite.
HAHAHA. like, for what use. LOL.

there is sofa.


balcony. i wanted to sit here and enjoy the night scenery. but, there were mosquitoes. T.T


2 toilets, since there are 2 rooms.


i sleep at 10pm. HAHAHAHAHA. i tell myself i need to slp early and hence i sleep at 10pm, after watching the chronicles of narnia. LOL. wanted to watch too fast too furious, but i fell aslp half way. LOL.

and wee!! undisturbed slp for 11 hours!! i love to bury myself in the blanket/pillows with blasting air con. XX so scared i will suffocate myself in the middle of the night.  LOL. HAHAHAHAH.

rise and shine!

all from BKK.




like my hotel actually.


kids can come here and play too!! there is a slide and a mushroom!




adults can swim at the mini swimming pool too!! HAHAHA.

else, go play tennis/badminton/basketball.


our hotel room!


breakfast!

so many different kinds of cereals! and i spot my favourite. koko crunch. i hate how some hotels cheat by giving fake koko crunch. LOL.

i only like honey stars and koko crunch. but XX decided he needs to try everything. and ended up, ewww. he didnt like some of them.




all kind of jams/butter for you to choose from! orange and pineapple jam are new stuff. LOL.
OH, they have vegetable butter de leh. good for your heart. HAHA.


alot of juices for you to choose too!


eggggggggggggggggggggggg overdosed.

i hate eggs though. esp sunshine eggs. LOL.

HHAHAHA. this is what i do, when i am bored. i gave the eggs a hairdo with koko crunch, 2 fruit loops as bow!


yum yum!! i like pancakes.


maple syrup + pancakes = divine.


donuts for the kids!


decided to head outside for a walk!
old school coca cola glass bottles.


there are a few pubs in the vicinity actually. i thought its just another dead town. LOL.








i realise their windows all standard shapes. LOL.

and yeah! home sweet home after that. heh.
OMG. you survived the entry!